Little Sarah got more than Billy! Bobby got the action figure Sam really wanted!
Sound familiar? Chaos can set in fast and often unexpectedly during the holidays. The best thing you can do is plan ahead and prepare for any episodes. First, if you have an infant be sure to pack and plan when traveling as we discussed in an earlier post about traveling with the kids during the holidays.
While we're trying to relax by the fire, catch up with family and sip some egg nog, we are essentially entertaining ourselves, but what about the children? Toddler and school-aged children need entertainment too. The excitement of unwrapping presents doesn't last too long. In fact, on many occasions this is where it can all go haywire. If your child doesn't get what they wanted or if they want what someone else received, the holiday fun gets put on hold. We have to stop and remind ourselves that this is the perfect time to teach our children a valuable lesson in understanding gift giving, thankfulness, handling their emotions and also learning why we give gifts during the holidays. Kicking back with some fruit cake doesn't always present itself, but there are ways to have the kids focus less on what they're getting and more on giving.
By preparing to entertain your children with coloring books (we have free coloring pages on our site), cookie decorating, making a snow man, a whole family snow ball fight, caroling, board games or card games, you will keep the kids happy and remind your family what spending time together is all about.
One great way to get your children involved is to have them prepare a "show" for the family. This "show" could be reciting a poem, magic tricks, doing a dance to their favorite song or learning the words to a holiday jingle.
This gets the kids involved in the day, gives them something to practice while you're baking and cooking or preparing for travel, and will warm the hearts of your family.
Wherever you spend the holidays and however you celebrate try to remember what the season it all about, and teach your little ones early on so they never lose sight of the meaning of giving! Keep them as entertained as you would like to be, and while you're entertaining be sure that they lend a hand be it by giving a mini-recital or passing around cookies to guests.
Now, get practicing that show for grandma with the kiddies!